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Experimentation

Saturday, March 14th, 2009

ExperimentationExperimentation. Over the last month I have began to loath that word from the very core of my being. A Google definition search pulled up the following:

experiment: the testing of an idea; “it was an experiment in living”; “not all experimentation is done in laboratories”

An experiment in living? That needs some clarification. What does that mean? When we grow up we are taught the difference between right and wrong, most people essentially think they’re good people and boy do they not have a clue.

“Come on bro, you never drink? We have to get you drunk sometime.”

Please excuse the verbal attacks that will follow. Are you mentally handy capped, retarded, stupid, dropped as a baby, or just blind?

“Ah, you’ll never know what it’s like until you try.”

Buddy, you’ll never know how great it feels to have a truck roll over your head until you try either, that doesn’t mean I’m going to do it. Forget all the normal logical and spiritual reasons for just staying away from alcohol to be safe, why would I ever want to put myself in such a venerable state? I can’t even trust you to look after your own life, let alone mine.

You see, what people just don’t seem to be picking up is that every decision you make today, and every stupid thing you do will affect your entire life in some way. It will shape you as a person, put you into almost unbreakable habits and lead you down paths that would cause your seven year old self to run away screaming if they saw you.

It’s not the kids of today, or the people of today. It’s been happening for centuries. We make the same stupid mistakes our parents made, and one day you’ll sit and tell your kids not to do what you did. When they do it, you’ll probably sit back and say – ah let them experiment.

Hello! That’s not how this deal works bud. It’s not just an experiment; it’s a decision to engage in whatever activity against your better judgement just for… That’s just it, I don’t know why? Why do people take drugs? Why do people smoke? Why do people drink excessively? Why, why, why? I just don’t understand the logic, reasoning, stupidity, whatever you want to call it that’s involved.

Don’t blame it on divorce, television, poverty or anything like that – those aren’t the reasons. I guess it’s just a lack of God in their life. No light means dark.

Today I got told that one of my younger former friends was now experimenting in smoking stuff. The way he’s been going I’m not surprised but it still made me so sad. I can’t even imagine what God must feel. He’s wasting his life on something he knows isn’t right.

I’m a person who really enjoys spending time with young people, but as they get older most change in ways that just make you so sad. They forget God, they ‘experiment,’ they loose who they are in a world that encourages compromise and rejects truth. Maybe that’s why I love young people; they are uncorrupted, open, honest and free. But unless they choose to stay that way, and most don’t, they become the so called good people of today. People that are so caught up in the nothingness of their lives that they don’t even know right from wrong anymore.

I’m not trying to judge other people, because I’m just as susceptible to doing wrong in different ways. In fact if I don’t check myself I easily fall in to the trap of thinking I’m a good person when that’s not what it’s about. God first, life second. That’s how it should always be. If you don’t believe me, try it, you just might find this is the last experiment you’ll ever need.

God means life, love, eternity, happiness, completeness. He makes you want to be a better person all the time. I am a very judgemental person by nature; I look at people and often accurately sum them up at face value. What I’ve learnt to do is see what I don’t like and instead of judging them look at myself and say, do I do that? Am I like that? If I am then it needs to be sorted out, if not then thank God for that and move on.

People often say they just can’t stop sinning in a particular way. My first question is do you really want to stop? The difficulty is not in stopping the action; it’s in the reasoning behind the action. How badly do you not want to do it? That’s what you should be correcting, that’s the root of the problem. If you don’t want to change for the better than nobody can force you, but it’s a shame that your life would have been wasted when there is so much more to find.

Don’t Mess with J and B

Thursday, February 12th, 2009

High FiveJonathan looked up at the biology teacher. She continued writing. He turned to Brett who was staring down at his biology paper.

“Fifty-two percent, my parents are going to kill me,” Brett wined.

“What are you worrying about? I just had a slap in the face forty-five.”

“So? What now?”

“We either wallow in self pity or pick ourselves up and move on.”

The bell rang immediately outside their classroom making everybody jump.

“Man, the entire class is tense today,” remarked Brett.

They arrived at English late after arguing with the cleaner about whether or not Brett had stolen her mop again. The English teacher looked at them angrily as they knocked at the door. Mr. Smithers was a strange man who went through much too many mood swings during the week. He asked where they had been.

“There was an accident along the way and we had to stop to direct traffic,” Jonathan replied.

“Trying to be a wise guy are we? Fine you can stay there for the rest of the lesson.”

“Great, free lesson!” Jonathon smiled; he knew he had him between his dirty little fingers.

“On second thought, come in. We’re reading through Hamlet, you can play the king.”

Jonathan wasn’t going to loose this one.

“Cool,” he said, “I’m going to need practice for ripping it off later.”

English dragged on as Hamlet’s long speeches put the class to sleep. The bell was warmly welcomed with excited chatter as the boys poured out of the classroom.

Mr. Smithers blocked the doorway stopping Jonathon in his tracks. He began his long drawn out speech, which he must have been preparing mentally throughout the lesson. He noticed Jonathon wasn’t paying attention, grabbed him by the arm and screamed for him to listen. Jonathon glared at him. Mr. Smithers continued his speech as Jonathon began to devise a sinister and brilliant plan. A plan so big and so great he would go down in the history of the school. All he needed was a rat, balloons, a siren and Mr. Smithers’ mood swings.

Brett was waiting for him outside. As they walked the bell rang out for the beginning of the next lesson. Jonathon excitedly laid out his brilliant plan for Brett to enjoy.

The sound of the windscreen wipers were deafening as Jonathon anticipated his big day. He had been up all night thinking it over, thoroughly analysing it from every possible viewpoint, but it was too perfect. The rain fitted in perfectly, urging his excitement on.

His mother looked at him suspiciously.

“You’re up to something, aren’t you?”

“Me? Never,” Jonathon looked at her innocently.

“If I get a phone call your birthday is off.”

“But it’s in six months.”

“Well, let’s not ruin it so early then.”

Brett was waiting for him at the front gate with all the requested items. He looked like a scrawny wet rat himself with his front teeth peering out over his bottom lip and a crazy sparkle in his eyes. They set up and made their way to their first lesson, English!

Mr. Smithers was late today, something concerned with a mysterious sign taped to his front door about his imminent death. Jonathon and Brett were unusually silent. Mr. Smithers eventually stormed in and walked straight up to Jonathon and Brett. Brett stood up and greeted Mr. Smithers, Jonathon followed adding his appreciation for Mr. Smithers’ arrival and that he would like to get on with the lesson.

“It was you, wasn’t it?”

“It was me, what sir?”

“You are the smelly little toad who stuck up the sign on my door this morning.”

“Sign sir?”

“You, you little…” At that moment a siren went off from somewhere very close. Mr. Smithers was stopped in his tracks and immediately assumed it was an emergency siren. Many of the other classes had thought the same thing and were lining up in single file outside their classrooms. Mr. Smithers grabbed his cloak from behind the door and marched the class towards the hall.

The grand hall was shrouded in a mist of chaos as the boys speculated about what was going on. The teachers themselves where discussing what could be happening when the principal rushed in looking confused and irritable. The secretary ran up to Mr. Smithers and handed him a bunch of balloons.

“These must be from the people that planted the bomb; we found them at the front gate. They had a Tag which read, ‘When the siren sounds the party begins’.”

“A bomb?”

“That’s what I think it is, you give it to the chief you’re his big friend.”

“That is true. I will take this moment to be at his right hand helping him through this difficult situation.”

“Suck up, more like,” she whispered under her breath.

The principal turned to face Mr. Smithers. Brett fired a pea at the balloons. They exploded in his face sending the principal hurling off his platform. Mr. Smithers dropped to the ground in an attempt to save the principal from his fall. To the great amusement of the school a rat peered out from Mr. Smithers’ jacket pocket. It began to crawl onto the principal’s face. The rat was drenched from the rain which had been pouring into the jacket when they were standing outside.

Jonathon slammed the siren’s button causing it to give an enormous and sudden wail. The rat shaken with fright bit the principal’s nose hard causing him to screech in pain. Mr. Smithers got such a fright he tripped over his own legs and fell on the principal sending them flying down the meter drop from the second level of the podium to the floor. This set the school into a fit of laughter. The principal pushed Mr. Smithers off angrily.

The ambulance arrived within ten minutes of the incident and both Smithers and the principal were catered to.

“Nothing too serious then chief,” Mr. Smithers remarked.

“Smithers, you’re fired,” the principal screamed. His scream shook the ambulance and sent and immediate cheer through the crowd of boys.

“Nobody touches me and gets away with it,” shouted Jonathon.

“You know it bro,” encouraged Brett.

“Well, I don’t know about you but I’m feeling a lot better than yesterday Brett. I think we’ve learnt a valuable lesson.”

“Don’t mess with the J and B,” they both shouted together. This sent them off in a fit of high fives and laughing as the tagged each other all the way to their next class.

American iTunes Store Account

Tuesday, September 16th, 2008

iTunes StoreFor those countries which have iTunes Stores, setting up and purchasing items from the store is simple and easy. You just click sign in, create account, and off you go. But for countries without iTunes Stores, or iTunes Stores which only have certain content, getting the content you want is not so easy.

I doubt there will be anybody who will deny that out of all the iTunes Stores in the world, America has the best selection. So everybody wants an American account, even those that have iTunes stores in their country. For millions of people around the world, piracy is their main music and movie distributor. iTunes provides a simple paying alternative and because of the great content and ease of use many people prefer it to pirating their music. Unfortunately the studios, record labels and governments of the countries around the world don’t seem to see the benefit of making iTunes access a priority when it comes to fighting piracy. So some countries end up with no stores, and others have very little in their stores.

We found a way for anybody, from anywhere, to get an American iTunes store account and buy their music from the best music store in the world. Although what is being done does seem to be a loop hole in law and Apple’s policies, it still feels a little underhanded.

The best acceptable way to get an account is to get an American friend to create one for you with their address and details. If your credit card is not from an American bank you will not be able to register. So the way to get around this is to purchase gift vouchers for the iTunes store account and use those to pay for your music.

It sounds simple enough, but not everybody has a friend in the states, and getting gift cards on the internet can lead to scams. So what do you do? Step in tunecard.biz. A legitimate company that you can buy iTunes gift vouchers from. If you want, they will even set up an account for you.

UPDATE: tunecars.biz has closed down. This may or may not be due to Apple or dodge behavior, or maybe both. The only other way to get the vouchers is to buy them from ebay.com. If you do this, we recommend only buying from Top sellers. Look out for the Top Seller logo next to their name.

iPhoneAll you need is a paypal account and you’re on your way. We decided to give them a test run and see if this was all real. We had to set up a paypal account and get our credit card confirmed which took two days. After that we went through to their site, clicked on the amount we wanted and paid them through paypal. We were then directed to a page which asks for your details so that they could either set up your new account or put money into your existing account. After completion we received a confirmation e-mail from the site, thanking us for our payment. In just two hours we had an e-mail with our new account details. After logging on, our account had already been credited with the amount requested and we were free to download music.

It was simple, easy and the service was fantastic. If you want to pay for your music and have quality albums for great prices this service is your golden ticket. But I can’t stop wondering how legal this process is. After looking into Apple’s policy you can’t begin to deny that this process is not accepted by Apple. Their very first clause is that you must be in the United States to use the service. Here is the excerpt:

U.S. SALES ONLY

Purchases or rentals (as applicable) from the iTunes Store are available to you only in the United States and are not available in any other location. You agree not to use or attempt to use the iTunes Store from outside of the available territory. Apple may use technologies to verify such compliance.

After further investigation it seems there are very different and confusing tax laws in the different countries. This reason alone is probably good enough to stop outside buyers. So, unfortunately those of us who want to obey the rules have hit another brick wall. Although I think Apple is simply covering themselves from law suits, they can block your access if they catch you. It’s back to the drawing board for those of us who are too impatient to wait for our own great stores.

What’s your mission?

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

HomelessI sat, with two friends, in the picture window of a quaint restaurant just off the corner of the town-square. The food and the company were both especially good that day.

As we talked, my attention was drawn outside, across the street. There, walking into town was a man who appeared to be carrying all his worldly goods on his back. He was carrying, a well-worn sign that read, “I will work for food.” My heart sank.

I brought him to the attention of my friends and noticed that others around us had stopped eating to focus on him. Heads moved in a mixture of sadness and disbelief.

We continued with our meal, but his image lingered in my mind. We finished our meal and went our separate ways. I had errands to do and quickly set out to accomplish them. I glanced toward the town square, looking somewhat half heartedly for the strange visitor. I was fearful, knowing that seeing him again would call some response. I drove through town and saw nothing of him. I made some purchases at a store and got back in my car.

Deep within me, the Spirit of God kept speaking to me: “Don’t go back to the office until you’ve at least driven once more around the square.”

Then with some hesitancy, I headed back into town. As I turned the square’s third corner, I saw him. He was standing on the steps of the store front church, going through his sack.

I stopped and looked; feeling both compelled to speak to him, yet wanting to drive on. The empty parking space on the corner seemed to be a sign from God: an invitation to park. I pulled in, got out and approached the town’s newest visitor.

“Looking for the pastor?” I asked.

“Not really,” he replied, “just resting.”

“Have you eaten today?”

“Oh, I ate something early this morning.”

“Would you like to have lunch with me?”

“Do you have some work I could do for you?”

“No work,” I replied “I commute here to work from the city, but I would like to take you to lunch.”

“Sure,” he replied with a smile.

As he began to gather his things, I asked some surface questions. Where you headed?”

“St. Louis”

“Where are you from?”

“Oh, all over; mostly Florida.”

“How long you been walking?”

“Fourteen years,” came the reply.

I knew I had met someone unusual. We sat across from each other in the same restaurant I had left earlier. His face was weathered slightly beyond his 38 years. His eyes were dark yet clear, and he spoke with an eloquence and articulation that was startling. He removed his jacket to reveal a bright red T-shirt that said, “Jesus is The Never Ending Story.”

Then Daniel’s story began to unfold. He had seen rough times early in life. He’d made some wrong choices and reaped the consequences. Fourteen years earlier, while backpacking across the country, he had stopped on the beach in Daytona. He tried to hire on with some men who were putting up a large tent and some equipment. A concert, he thought.

He was hired, but the tent would not house a concert but revival services, and in those services he saw life more clearly. He gave his life over to God.

“Nothing’s been the same since,” he said, “I felt the Lord telling me to keep walking, and so I did, some 14 years now.”

“Ever think of stopping?” I asked.

“Oh, once in a while, when it seems to get the best of me But God has given me this calling. I give out Bibles . That’s what’s in my sack. I work to buy food and Bibles, and I give them out when His Spirit leads.”

I sat amazed. My homeless friend was not homeless. He was on a mission and lived this way by choice. The question burned inside for a moment and then I asked: “What’s it like?”

“What?”

“To walk into a town carrying all your things on your back and to show your sign?”

“Oh, it was humiliating at first. People would stare and make comments. Once someone tossed a piece of half-eaten bread and made a gesture that certainly didn’t make me feel welcome. But then it became humbling to realize that God was using me to touch lives and change people’s concepts of other folks like me.”

My concept was changing, too. We finished our dessert and gathered his things. Just outside the door, he paused He turned to me and said, “Come Ye blessed of my Father and inherit the kingdom I’ve prepared for you. For when I was hungry you gave me food, when I was thirsty you gave me drink, a stranger and you took me in.”

I felt as if we were on holy ground. “Could you use another Bible?” I asked.

He said he preferred a certain translation. It travelled well and was not too heavy. It was also his personal favourite. “I’ve read through it 14 times,” he said.

“I’m not sure we’ve got one of those, but let’s stop by our church and see” I was able to find my new friend a Bible that would do well, and he seemed very grateful.

“Where are you headed from here?” I asked.

“Well, I found this little map on the back of this amusement park coupon.”

“Are you hoping to hire on there for awhile?”

“No, I just figure I should go there. I figure someone under that star right there needs a Bible, so that’s where I’m going next.”

He smiled, and the warmth of his spirit radiated the sincerity of his mission. I drove him back to the town-square where we’d met two hours earlier, and as we drove, it started raining. We parked and unloaded his things.

“Would you sign my autograph book?” he asked. “I like to keep messages from folks I meet.”

I wrote in his little book that his commitment to his calling had touched my life. I encouraged him to stay strong. And I left him with a verse of scripture from Jeremiah, “I know the plans I have for you, declared the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you; Plans to give you a future and a hope.”

“Thanks, man,” he said. “I know we just met and we’re really just strangers, but I love you.”

“I know,” I said, “I love you, too.” “The Lord is good!”

“Yes, He is. How long has it been since someone hugged you?” I asked.

A long time,” he replied

And so on the busy street corner in the drizzling rain, my new friend and I embraced, and I felt deep inside that I had been changed. He put his things on his back, smiled his winning smile and said, “See you in the New Jerusalem.”

“I’ll be there!” was my reply.

He began his journey again. He headed away with his sign dangling from his bedroll and pack of Bibles. He stopped, turned and said, “When you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?”

“You bet,” I shouted back, “God bless.”

“God bless.” And that was the last I saw of him.

Late that evening as I left my office, the wind blew strong. The cold front had settled hard upon the town. I bundled up and hurried to my car. As I sat back and reached for the emergency brake, I saw them… a pair of well-worn brown work gloves neatly laid over the length of the handle. I picked them up and thought of my friend and wondered if his hands would stay warm that night without them.

Then I remembered his words: “If you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?”

Today his gloves lie on my desk in my office. They help me to see the world and its people in a new way, and they help me remember those two hours with my unique friend and to pray for his ministry. “See you in the New Jerusalem,” he said. Yes, Daniel, I know I will.

“I shall pass this way but once. Therefore, any good that I can do or any kindness that I can show, let me do it now, for I shall not pass this way again.”

Facebook Review 2007

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

facebookI was stubborn at first; I don’t really like the idea of putting up my life story for the world to see. I don’t see why I need to show the world who my friends are. However one of my friends had been irritating me to join, so I decided I would review it for a week. I decided to see what this facebook thing was all about. I created an account and went on at random times every day for the week. This is what I found.

Once you have arrived, registered and confirmed your registration you can log into your own account. Most of the stuff is simple enough. You upload a picture that will represent you, and fill in the details about your life. You will need to find a Network to be a part of if you are under 18 and a friend will have to confirm that you are indeed a part of that network. Most likely your network will be your school/varsity.
Now this is where I stopped and said, “What now?” I saw you could see all the people’s profiles in your network and invite people to be your friend and so I began to look through all the faces in my schools network. I invited friends and a few strange people that never leave me alone – funnily enough they were the first to confirm that we were friends! I looked at their weird and wonderful profiles and I have to admit it was an eye opener to who people really are and the company they keep. I eventually got over that and decided I would send a message to a friend and find out what to do using the built in message system. He wasn’t much help!

I found a friend who was overseas and sent him a message. Finally I had found something worthwhile to do. We had a virtual chat and I sent a few other messages to different people. I found someone online who would not answer their phone and so I sent them a message and was able to get what I needed from them. That was 2 bonus points for facebook.

I then realized that I could use this site to find long lost friends. Unfortunately, long story short, all the numbers on my old phone from primary school were deleted when I changed phones and I could only contact a few people. So off I went typing names in the search box and coming up with nothing! Eventually I got a brain wave and searched for my old school as a network. Even still I only found one lost friend and a teacher but nobody from my grade! Obviously they all feel the same way as I feel about sites like this. So my first day of facebook was over, with only one old friend and teacher found and my life story with a few of my friends up for the world to see. The worst part was when I looked at the clock it had been something like two hours wasted!

Through the week I found a few more friends, added some pictures to my profile and joined a couple of totally random and pointless groups, which is something people do on facebook! I soon found a movies and music quiz which was, I hate to admit, the highlight for me. You can tell everybody your top movies, share ratings and look at the top ten money spinning movies. The music section is more exciting you can listen to parts of your favourite songs and friends can listen to them too. Apparently full songs are a new feature which is pretty cool.

After a week of facebook I actually haven’t been compelled to go back much. If I get an e-mail informing me that I have a new message I will go and check it but there is no real compulsion to go back. Unless all your lost friends are on facebook it is pointless, and although the random clubs, quizzes and music is fun it is easy to get bored of. The most excitement is seeing your friend’s photos, chatting and commenting on them. Unfortunately friends get over it too and then there is nothing new to look at, and I’m definitely not the person to go to random people and start asking them to be my friend.

I can see why people like it. It is an online, world wide community, where friends can stay in touch with each other’s lives and have a small part in them. With more updates regularly and more to do I am sure facebook will be an even bigger success, but for how long? People have gotten over sites like My Space before. The real question is how quickly the people of facebook can turn out new things to do to keep our age group hooked. With so many other things to do and real life to live, is this not just another thing that will end up going to the Geeks in the end? My answer? Probably. I’ve already gotten over it until some old friends find me. I think the more friends you have that you don’t see often the more you will enjoy facebook.

It is good for people to keep in touch but don’t get addicted like some of my friends, there is real life and real people to deal with right outside your door. Rather use this as a way to keep in touch with everyone and enjoy the perks every now and again. Just remember I am extremely biased to this kind of stuff so if I at least had a bit of fun it may be worth a try for you!

Ratings:

Security: 8/10
Ease of use: 6/10
Fun: 7/10
The test of time: 4/10
‘Addictiveness’: 9/10
Look: 8/10

Overall: 7/10

Update: It seems facebook has lasted well and become a worldwide phenomenon. I have to admit, I’m now a facebook lover myself.

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